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Music and my pets keep me sane, they’re my rocks
Planning helps me. Making lists of what can be done to improve the situation, steps to take. It makes me feel like I have some control.
i like doing yoga and going for walks! remember to relax, breathe, and take time for yourself.
Great believer in setting goals / pros-cons down on paper; make lists, define the problem / possible solutions…formulate a plan to go forward !!!
LOL! I feel like I am always behind the eight ball as the old saying goes. Just take things one step at a time and eventually things work out.
I pray and I also have an amazing group of women in a mentoring group that I can turn to
Post its help me when I can cross off the easy items!
I always just keep a list of things to do and as long as im crossing things off then i dont feel so much pressure. Also when Im stressed I take a bubble bath and have a glass of wine then when im relaxed I get back to my chores.
I rely on prayer to get me through the tough times. I am sorry for what you are going through.
I take a deep breath and just say to myself things will get better.
I try to make 2-3 things a priority to get done, then reward myself with something small and then repeat the process a couple times until I feel I’m catching up.
I think yoga helps
I start setting reminders on my phone that way I make sure to do what I say I’m going to do.
I listen to some classic music.
For me it is all about the lists so I can stop trying to remember everything, and then prioritize the quick wins and get them crossed off!
I make lists in my planner and put appointments in my phone.
Choose one thing that you’ve been meaning to get done for a while and do it. It gives you a feeling of accomplishment.
That makes sense.
I go for a walk outside. Then I come back and set new priorities.
Thanks for the contest.
I use to walk after school when I taught. I was much better at scheduling then. Now, not so much, lol!
I pray and go for a walk to clear my head.
When I feel this way I go outside and sit under our Magnolia tree. I listen to the quiet and pray to God for help and strength to find my way again.
I make lists often and revise them often to keep things organized in my mind.
I take a moment to pray and put things into perspective.
Prayer is awesome!
No matter how rushed I feel, when I get to that spot, I take five minutes to just zone out and look at something nice.
Delegate what you can, set realistic times, prioritize what’s really important and if you have to, just postpone some of your commitments. We can’t allow ourselves to be stretched too thin.
Take it one day at a time, keep busy, try to find things i enjoy.
I don’t worry about it. I realize that we are all blessed with certain gifts and we just do what we can do. I’m not going to be great at everything. But I am great at some things that other people aren’t. I might be envious about what other people can accomplish, but guess what? Other people are envious of some of the things that I can do.
Brooke, That is AWESOME~ Thank you.
Sometimes I scream when I’m alone and frustrated, no lie. I try and mentally check things off my list, I never got it all done but I keep going and try and be as efficient as possible and at the end of the day I know I did my best or I needed a break to stop.
Maybe I need to try that! I’m home alone, no one would know~
I’m kind of there myself so I don’t really know. I guess I try to make small steps toward solving the issue because small steps add up.
Heather,
I’ve gotten NOTHING accomplished today. I’ve run all day! I’ve run my self silly.
I take some time to organize and regroup. I work best with lists and a schedule, and organizing and prioritizing helps me catch up!
I do try 🙂
I love to Pray first…take in some breathing techniques..write down what I need to do…If all things are not taken care of that day..I do not stress about it & also let it go..start all over again next day…
I am pretty sure my whole life is a roller coaster. I turn to God. Quiet prayer and meditation give me peace
that’s pretty well me. Without God, I’d be lost!
I try not to think of it that way, otherwise I;d go bonkers, lol. When I see that I am taking one step forward and two steps back, I just try to shrug it off ans move forward.
Ir always helps me to get up an hour earlier to have more time to do stuff. Plus it’s quiet time so you will feel more relaxed.
Well things have been rather hecktic around here lately, my husband just informed me this evening that the place were he is working at will be closing up within six months. Looks like I will be going back to work again here real soon.
Oh June,
I’m so sorry. That is happening all over. I’m terribly sorry!
I keep going because I know each step each task each goal step is getting me closer to where I want to be.
You are right on point!
i’m always 7 steps behind and it’s driving me mad, all you can do is keep on keeping on
I write about it, it always seems to help.
I don’t like to get behind so I do whatever needs to be done and then get it over with. I am always trying to stay ahead so that i do not get behind.
Oh Susan,
I strive to be like you!
I just take a deep breathe and keep going.
Sounds good!
I take some time out and do some hiking. Refreshes the brain and body.
I will occasionally make a priority list, then not look at it until I have done enough of the items to allow me to mark them off. That can give a real sense of accomplishment!
I keep a list. I just can’t go by it, lol! Like Gracie has been sick ALL week and when Gracie is sick, she is SICK (we all suffer) lol.
I like to put on some music and make a list of everything I need to do. I will even play the music while I’m doing certain thins. I find it kind of helps me stay a little calmer. Thanks for the chance.
Oh, I love music! I do play it all day while Michael’s gone. The problem is—- I also play it when I’m mad, so if I play it after Michael gets home from work, he thinks I’m mad, lol!
I just hunker down and try to work even harder, starting with what’s most pressing first.
Honesty, I just laugh and carry on!!
I really just try and do what I can – little things first, or most important things first -and then I feel like I’m a little less behind as I go along.
-Lauren
Great idea!
My thinking is Things happen for a reason, need to keep positive thoughts! And keep going, never give up!
That’s true!
I am always behind on paying off my bills. Just when I thought I was done, I find another one.
Oh, gosh! Me too!
I try to take some “me” time to recover
I feel selfish if I do that. I feel like I’m letting Michael or Gracie down.
I often feel this way about finances. Every time I think I might be a little ahead I get an unexpected expense and I am behind again.
Oh, it’s that way for us too!
I make checklists and break things down into manageable pieces.
I do the checklists. My checklists just seem to keep piling up!
make a to do list, see what can be pushed back. see what can be delegated: to kids, neighbors, friends, partners, etc. find a friend to hold you accountable: “did you do the laundry/ make dinner/ catch up on email/ etc?” i’d be happy to do that for you if you want to message me.
Molli,
You are SO sweet! All of you guys are awesome!
Get a hug. That always helps.
That’s great idea.
Yoga is what keeps me sane. I hated it the first few times I went but now I love it!
OH, I wish, I think I could get a little motivated for that.
take a deep breath and move on.
Oh, I try!
such a great idea i dont get out much i spend time with my kids
I know that I am going though those kinds of times with God or without Him. I choose to go through it with Him. It helps me to say Lord, we are going through this together!
I just keep pushing forward.
I have yet to figure that one out.
I think it’s hard for everyone!
Baby steps, one foot in front of other one small project on to do list one day at a time. Make time fior a daily walk, hopefully there are some trees or outdoor natural surroundings good for mind, body and soul.
We live in a nice subdivision. I should do some walking. Some of you have mentioned running. I CAN’T
run, lol.
I remember to breathe and try my hardest to focus on the fact that the future is, in fact, NOW! 😉
I make lists of things I need to do with the most important task at the top so I keep on track.
That’s what I try to do.
I’m adaptable so when something doesn’t go as planned, I try to pick and go and change direction.
I’m not adaptable, I have to have a plan or I am totally messed up.
I take a breather and try to regroup and prioritize
I still haven’t figured it out yet. lol I always feel like I am running in circles.
I sit on my front porch take some deep breathes, then I stop beating myself up for things I have no control over!
Holly,
I did that yesterday, except I didn’t sit on the porch. I spent the day driving with Gracie. She’s learning to drive (scary), but it was a good day and I didn’t worry about EVERYTHING I had to do at home. Thank you girl!
I breathe, and remember that I can’t fix everything or do it all at once. I then have a coffee, write a list of things to do, and do a few small things to get things started…
Maybe, I do need to shorten my list and then go on to my next short list. Y’all are giving me such great suggestions. I love you guys!
You never get caught up, you just need to decided what is important and do that. The other things can wait until you can do them or someone else can. Make a list with the important things first and on down.
You sound like me Geri!
I feel this way quite often as a full time student and blogger. I pray for God to give me patience and understanding.
Prayers do offer me peace. I just need to stay in a state of prayer all day. They don’t all need to be long, God hears it all.
It’s one step at a time when you’re chipping away at an iceberg. Try prioritizing two or three things each day, and put the rest off until tomorrow.
It’s kind of like that with weight too.
A glass of wine always helps!! Relax it will all get done eventually.
That sounds awesome. I just don’t drink in front of Gracie. She knows that I do drink, I just don’t do it in front of her. I just think that I should be at my best when I’m with her (all the time, lol)
I like to come up with a game plan of the most efficient way I can complete my tasks, with the least amount of steps/trips as possible. I also make sure I give myself some downtime. If I am exhausted I am not as effective.
I take a short trip with my best friend to go enjoy a bit of quiet time – go hiking or take walks.
First of all don’t stress about it (easier said then done, I know) because that usually just makes matters worse and being hectic is the last thing you need. Secondly take a step back and take a look at the big picture to find priorities and so you don’t get lost in little things instead of working on the big ones.
Also, chocolate helps with sanity in times of stress! 😉
Ok, Rafflecopter decided not to let me enter (even with another broweser) but that’s fine; I hope my advice helps … in case it doesn’t, just add more chocolate to your diet! 😀
Girl, I’ve got you COVERED. Check your e-mail!
I reserve time everyday for things that I enjoy.
I need to pencil that in. I do for Thursday nights with Gracie. That is “our” night!
I just gotta realize some things are out of my control. I either take a deep breath and go do something I enjoy or do some crafts to unwind.
I am so glad that I asked this question because it’s got me thinking. I have NO idea of what I enjoy anymore.
Going for a run always helps! When you finish, it feels like a fresh start and your head has cleared 🙂
Taking it a day at a time keeps me sane
Chanel,
I can’t run. I have REALLY bad arthritis. I can walk and I do enjoy it. When we have the pool open, I enjoy it and there are NO kids here, I enjoy the pool. But NO running, lol!
Thankfully I have a tech savvy husband. He gives me all my advice! 🙂
Lucky girl!
I usually talk to my mom to gain perspective.
That’s a hard subject for me. I’m glad that you had a Mom you could talk to. I lived by the nicest lady who had kids my age and she watched my house while I was gone and I watched her and I dearly loved her. I ALWAYS thought of her as a MOM. She is a wonderful lady.
When I feel like I can’t catch up, there’s a few things I do. I guess the main thing I do is try not to think about it too much. If you dwell on things, they only seem more hopeless. I try to focus on one thing at a time, like paying off my lowest credit card or getting one area of the hose cleaned up. Then I move on to the next thing. I also pray. I don’t do that near enough, I’m sure because I’m probably a little bit of a control freak and try to take the weight of the world on myself.
I am the ULTIMATE control freak, honestly. You can’t beat me girl 🙂
I make a list of things to be done. That makes me want to get it done seeing it on paper.
Julie,
I turn the paper over and add more.
I try to stay calm my wife is the worry wart and I try to keep us all on a level playing field to handle what is happening
Kenneth,
I think wives are ALWAYS the worry worts, lol! It’s always great to see you here 🙂
I sit and make a mental list of things I need to do .Try to figure out any problems I may see .Then write it down.
Oh, Laura, I need each and everyone of you to visit my house (and kick me in the behind)
I have a hot cup of coffee and relax. Sometimes I’ll relax by reading a good book.
Oh Deb! I’m Southern to the core, we do SWEET TEA 🙂
I make lists of things to do and then prioritize and do what I can each day .
Take a deep breath and realize that you are only human. You can’t do everything.
I put Gracie and Michael first and then I try to get EVERYTHING else that I need to do. I’ve had SO much going on with Gracie this year (and the end of last year) but I slip in what I can of everything else.
I try not to let the setback spiral into depression or anxiety. I try my best to take it easy on myself, do lots of self-care, and remember that this too shall pass.
you are correct, this too shall pass. I love you guys! I really do!
I eat chocolate, sometimes alot of chocolate.
I’m in LOVE with those Hershey’s bags of chocolates that are already opened, like the little reeses. Just like Grab and Go. Don’t get me started! Why do you think I’m so big!
I step back and take a moment to regroup, maybe spend some time with kids and pets and get back focused on where I need to be
Thursday nights are always TV nights with Gracie1
I make a list of everything I have on my plate and try to prioritize.
I think everything on my list is HIGH priority, girl. I’m a TOTAL MESS!
I try to get organized. I make lists and check things off which makes me feel more in control. I also make time to sit quietly and meditate or just walk in nature to calm down.
Personally, I pray first. Then read some verses that i can meditate on to refocus. quiet time away from kids and craziness of busy days helps. But talking to my friends and getting grounded is helpful
Prayer is first. I get up extremely early and read my Bible and I’m reviewing a new Bible that is very interesting.
I take a hot bubble bath and try to relax my mind that way i can refocus any négative energy present.
When it happens I like to isolate myself and push through everything I have to do to not be behind
I have a few drinks when I feel like that… probably not the best advice.
Tiffany,
It’s good advice, I just can’t do it unless Gracie is at her Mimi’s, lol!
I feed lonely cats on the street and make me happy because i love cats.
Oh man,
We actually feed the whole neighborhood of cats. They all show up and I HAVE to feed them!
I do what I always do: I make a list.
I put things I have to do on one list, the top being the most important, and attack them one at a time. Then I can check it off. It just makes it less overwhelming to focus on one thing at a time.
Other lists are for things that aren’t a matter of great importance. You can tackle those when the really important things are out of the way.
I pray when I’m going through those times in life.
I’m also trying to figure this out so I will definitely read through the comments here.
It’s all great advice, I really mean it! I’m glad I asked this question.
I go through this all the time :/ There’s not much that I can do besides wait it out and do what I can to make things better
When I get really overwhelmed by how behind I feel, first I stop and take a few deep breaths and give myself time to sit and relax for a few minutes. Then I try to tackle something small and easy off my to-do list, like sending an e-mail or cleaning off the kitchen counter. Just getting one small thing accomplished helps give me some momentum to start doing other things.
Jogging keeps me sane and my crystals bring me closer to my soul which always directs me in the right path
I just think what it say’s in the scriptures–that it is a sin to worry. GOD will take care of everything
I feel you. My best advice when life keeps throwing you sucker punches is to just keep plugging away. When you feel overwhelmed? Do one thing. Then do another thing. You just got two things done. Take a break for a walk or whatever gives you peace and then get back in there and knock something else off the list and know that things will settle down eventually. Best wishes!
I think from reading all these comments, I AM going to reward myself in some SMALL way each time I complete something on my list.
I count my blessings every day and be thankful for all I have.
I sleep often
oh, I’m going to bed earlier and earlier.
Though its often difficult me, I reach out to people I trust, not someone to tell me what I want to hear, but tell me what I need to hear. I also give myself a break: listen to music, read trashy novels, etc – whatever it takes to give my mind a break. Also meditation is great.
I go into a quiet room and light some candles. Then I drink the hardest drink I can get to relax, lol.
take it one day at a time and enjoy life
Music…No matter what is going on in my life whether it be good or bad there is a song for it. Which is why I also cant limit myself to just one genre. If you only listen to one genre your cheating yourself and your soul.
I take a break and do something fun for a little bit even just for a few minutes. I also have a tendency to overwhelm myself so I think about how I can work on issues bit by bit because often when I really examine the issues some are just not as urgent as others. I, also, think it is important to remember a time when you felt like this before to remind yourself that it will eventually pass.
I try to make a list of what I need to accomplish and then wake up extra early one morning and say.. It will be done. I dedicate myself to not getting distracted and to just completing everything as quickly as possible.
I like to get out and go for long walks and listen to music.
I talk to my mom.
When I feel myself getting overwhelmed, I tend to sit down and make a list. It helps to visually see all that I have to do, and I feel organized. And it is a great feeling being able to check off each item after I’ve done it.
One thing I can say to you is First, if you have little ones, grab a baby sitter and have then sit and watch the little ones, Not that you are going out but go lock yourself in a closet.. Close your eyes and for a few minutes, think of nothing. absolutely nothing. gather your thoughts, and try to think of only what is needed to be done, forget the I wants….. just the needed.. later you can make a list and catagorize all your needs and yes a few wants in the must to do, or need to get done and so on… but for now just breath , relax, take a minute to gather yourself and don’t forget to give thanks to all you have done and been through and still standing 🙂 remember its ok to say you are doing a great job mom .. anyway’ its not much here but I do hope this helps in a way..
@tisonlyme143
Thank you girl! I did do that when Gracie was little. Now that Gracie is a teen, I’m running her here and there and its getting me SO far behind. It’s not bad stuff either, it’s usually Church related. I love my little girl!
Sometimes I leave it behind and take a break, a movie, a walk or time with family. I clear my head and then come back to tackle it with a fresh outlook. It sounds old school but sleeping on it helps also.
I am emotionally closed off. Happened after a serious suicide attempt years ago. Not sure if it is a side affect of being in a coma for awhile, lack of oxygen, or the many shocks they gave me to get my heart going. Maybe just my self saying that I cannot deal anymore.
Whatever the reason, I just let things slide off. If there isn’t a way to make the change..then why stress over it. If someone annoys me, I just distance myself from them. Avoidance works for me.
Oh girl, I am So sorry. I shouldn’t be complaining. If you need to talk you holler at me (sonyasparks@gmail.com)
Making lists and checking things off as I do them gives me a sense that I’m accomplishing something.
I try to take it one day at a time and always set aside time to exercise every day to relieve stress.
Music keeps me sane. Sometimes, if it’s too quiet, my mind starts to wander and focus on the negative. Music keeps me going.
I either just listen to the tv (not watch) or listen to music. That does help. Gracie laughs at me. I have a certain playlist on on my iPhone. If it doesn’t connect to my blutooth on my car, then I won’t leave the drive until I get it connected.
The hardest thing for me is to just stop. And breathe. Repeat numbers out of order (10, 7, 5, 13). Your mind can’t stay in the worry mode when it has to focus on something else.
Wow! I never thought of that!
Prioritize what is mote important first.
I know, I do. My family comes first but everything else gets put to the wayside.
Ya, I get you. I have lived this way for far too long. I have no idea how to fix it, but remember that it’s ok and you are doing the best with what you have. We do what we can, when we can, if we can. And remember to make yourself a priority!
I’m glad that I’m not the only one 🙂
I am recently on my 3rd year straight of this. Losses, cancer, learning trust, kids lost their jobs & moved in with us with their kids, major financial stuff, fridge died, washer died, recently there has been 8 deaths, 3 in the same week, and I couldn’t get from OR to IL for my cousins death (he took his life last month) it goes on. This is only a fraction. But this past 2 weeks have been the best “remission” you could say in the last few years… so here is hoping. I finally had to scream & knock down some barriers & leave for a weekend, recoup & reflect. I started a private group for my “tribe” and let my closest & some family know what has been happening. And I learned that the majority of them had something on their plate that their were “hiding in their soul”. I listen to music & or out in real nature is the only “healing & refreshing” moments I can find in the chaos.
Good luck girl, I’m so sorry!
I handle one problem at a time,I put some things on hold that can’t be fixed at the moment, I keep going no matter what life throws at me,I stop and take a breather every once in awhile but I have people depending on me and sometimes I feel like I have to be a superhero for them.
Sounds like you’ve got it under control!
i sleep alot
I wish I could 🙂
I make a list, take a deep breath and work at it one step at a time.
Oh girl! I have lists all over the place 🙂
i say to myself this is only temporary. every thing good or bad changes.
I should do that!
I’m always behind. I wish I could catch up on things – just once. I was getting caught up on housework and one of our cats got sick. She started peeing around the house, so I have had to spend time cleaning up after her – and the clutter just got worse. I set up an extra litter box on the cat tower so she is using that.
We had a cat that started peeing in my shoes when he was mad at me. You just can’t get that smell out of shoes.
I make a plan in my mind and tackle it. After each task is finished, I give myself an imaginary pat on the back.
I love candy. I should buy me a bag of mini candy bars and give me one as a treat when I finish a task. Maybe that will work.
I make to do lists, go for runs and wine of course!
I do have lists. (Wine is yummy, tequila is awesome- but I only do that when Gracie is at her Mimi’s lol)
Our Pilgrim Forefathers set aside one day of rest out of the week, and boy, did they need it! My advice is to do the very same thing ( and the day doesn’t have to be Sunday): Do not clean or cook on your “day off”, instead, dine on either takeout food or sandwiches from the fridge.
Cindy,
You are right, but our day of rest (Sunday) is spent running all day. Church 4 hours, ( yes 4 hours total)! Then theres the time getting there and getting home. Plus, any extra that they youth do that day. That is NOT a day of rest.
When I’m feeling like that; I try to remember that not everything “has” to be accomplished every day. I’ll pick out the things that do have to be done and then do what I can. And don’t remember to take time to do something you want to do each day. For me, getting outside to do some gardening…even if it’s just for an hour works great. It’s mentally refreshing. And who cares if there’s dishes in the sink.
That is true Audra and honestly, right now, there IS dishes in my sink!
I’m feeling like that often, honestly. The right way for me is just try to do things I need to otherwise I feel very behind and bad. I thin it’s easier for me to just to things I need to do and then relax – workout/ watch a show/ play a game..
Karina,
If I did everything I needed to do on my list, I would be at it for days upon days straight (no sleep).
I pray. 🙂
Oh Nicole,
I do pray. I do believe in the power of prayer.
I tell someone and force myself to take a moment for my, away from home. 1 hour to breathe makes world of difference.
If I tell someone Stephanie, I honestly feel like I’m asking for help. I dearly hate to ask for help. I do. That may be my problem.
I am one of the most organized people so I don’t ever get behind.. I would say start setting calendar reminders and write things down. if you don’t do that it won’t get done.
Steve,
That makes me laugh, not at you, I promise! I’m laughing because I have a calendar and I keep moving things that I don’t get done to the next day. It’s AWFUL!
I try to tune things out and go into my own little zone.
Oh, I wish!
It’s been a long time for me, thank God, but if there was anyone else involved or affected by some of the tasks I would ask them to prioritize them with me as to what was most important for their life that I do accomplish, what could be put off or delegated, etc. The other thing I did was go to bed later, not great, but it was only for a season and it helped give me more hours in my day.
Gracie and Michael are great about helping. I am blessed.
I try to take a step back, take a deep breath, and start prioritizing. There are only 24 hours in a day and 7 days in a week. There are only so many things you can do in the time you have. Do what you can when you can, and if something can’t get done – tomorrow is another day. 🙂
That’s true 🙂
if I feel like things are getting behind I just let it be no use getting stressed over it, like house work or yard work, there is always another day to do it
My husband is really good at helping me at housework unless he is working overtime.
I take a deep breath and count my blessings. I find that by just relaxing a bit, everything comes into place easier.
I like to bake, its good therapy. I know the feeling when you feel like youre caught up and BAM! something else happens to set you back. Cant life just go on without having any problems for awhile.
That would be awesome but…. life is life 🙂
I volunteer with cats. It helps me feel useful and the cats are good therapy.
I find that some times a short walk will even my keel and put me back on track. Other times, I have to step away, give myself a real breather, and then come back fresh.
I do yoga. It helps ground me & keep me calm;)
Honestly Sonya…I learned a long time ago that life is constantly going to throw curve balls at me, so I just roll with the punches. I let go of what I can’t control, but work my best at what I can. But no matter how crazy life and situations get, I always remember to take some time to myself. If I’m not in good shape mentally, physically, and emotionally….then I’m no good to anyone else either. Other than that, I make lots of lists and try to stay as organized as possible and follow a schedule. That really helps to keep me sane. Most importantly, when I really feel like I’m sinking or in a rut…I ask for help!
Pam,
You are so smart. You are right. If I’m not in the right frame of mind and good to myself, then I’m not good for anyone else. I don’t want that for Michael or Gracie. Thank you!
I go for a long walk, quick pace, fresh air… this usually helps.
I take some time away with hubby to rejuvenate.
I make sure I get to spend time just to myself for a bit. Sometimes that’s all I need to figure things out or sometimes I don’t think at all.